kerontribution: (and brought him strings and sealing wax)
Oryou ([personal profile] kerontribution) wrote in [community profile] ellipsanet2024-01-06 10:44 pm
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How do you improve other people's self-esteem?

[This is about so many people Oryou knows. It's frankly kind of ridiculous.]
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kerontribution: (whenever they came)

[personal profile] kerontribution 2024-01-14 11:49 pm (UTC)(link)
Oryou has been thinking about it for a while. One of her friends apologized because they were dumped for stopping pretending to be another person. That was stupid.
badsunrising: saikou-everyday (derp)

[personal profile] badsunrising 2024-01-15 01:36 am (UTC)(link)
Wait. They were dumped for telling the truth?
kerontribution: (whenever they came)

[personal profile] kerontribution 2024-01-15 01:38 am (UTC)(link)
He was trying to act like another person so that they would like him more, and when he started acting more like himself they dumped him. And he says he was bad and wrong for acting like himself.
badsunrising: https://shinylostcause.tumblr.com/ (staring up at where the moon should be)

[personal profile] badsunrising 2024-01-15 01:42 am (UTC)(link)
He was wrong for acting like someone else. But it's pointless to worry about those uninterested in who you really are.

There's no relationship without trust.

[ Good thing nobody can see him wince through text. ]
kerontribution: (and frolicked in the autumn mist)

[personal profile] kerontribution 2024-01-15 01:43 am (UTC)(link)
Oryou agrees. But if that person showed up Oryou would still bite them.
badsunrising: (going to live my life as i choose)

[personal profile] badsunrising 2024-01-15 01:45 am (UTC)(link)
[ That's almost endearing. ]

That might cause your friend more problems.

Though I can appreciate the sentiment. You sound very protective of them.
kerontribution: (and brought him strings and sealing wax)

[personal profile] kerontribution 2024-01-15 01:46 am (UTC)(link)
Oryou is. Because they don't like themself enough to take care of themself, so Oryou will take care of them instead.
badsunrising: (here standing on the edge)

[personal profile] badsunrising 2024-01-15 01:47 am (UTC)(link)
Just make sure you don't overdo it. They'll have to stand on their own two feet eventually.

[ Or more than two as the case might be. ]
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[personal profile] kerontribution 2024-01-15 01:48 am (UTC)(link)
Oryou knows. That's part of encouraging them to like themself more, is to stand up for themself.
badsunrising: (ever stray)

[personal profile] badsunrising 2024-01-15 01:49 am (UTC)(link)
Perhaps you can ask them to think about what they like about themselves. Sometimes that helps people to focus on their strengths.

[ He is such a hypocrite. ]
kerontribution: (and frolicked in the autumn mist)

[personal profile] kerontribution 2024-01-16 02:25 pm (UTC)(link)
Oryou will try that. That's a good idea.

[apply it to yourself too tho]
badsunrising: (until I fall)

[personal profile] badsunrising 2024-01-17 12:33 am (UTC)(link)
For what it's worth, I hope they can find that necessary confidence.
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[personal profile] kerontribution 2024-01-17 09:53 pm (UTC)(link)
Oryou will keep doing her best. Thank you for the advice.
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