Oryou (
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How do you improve other people's self-esteem?
[This is about so many people Oryou knows. It's frankly kind of ridiculous.]
[This is about so many people Oryou knows. It's frankly kind of ridiculous.]
un: necromancer
I'm not sure if there's really a way to do that. It's ultimately up to the individual, I'd think. Then again, I've never attempted it before myself...
[He hums, moving to cross one leg over the other where he's sitting before he gestures a bit.]
You're seeking to help someone, I take it?
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Lots of someones. Too many of Oryou's friends hate themselves for stupid reasons.
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That sounds quite troublesome indeed. But since they're your friends, you want to help them?
[He asks, like basic empathy is a foreign concept.]
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[It's okay, Oryou is used to explaining things that are obvious to her to people.]
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Ah, so by bolstering their confidence, you believe they'll be happier and less upset with themselves! I see, I see... Have you gotten any good advice so far?
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[So it feels like you're doing more than just sitting around and listening.]
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[It would be so much easier if there were just a simple thing she could do and boom, improved self-esteem.]
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I assume you've already tried speaking with them about the problem?
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[Why are her friends so dumb and hate themselves for dumb reasons!!]
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[A sympathetic nod as if he totally gets it, but it's mostly just because he gets people being dumb about things they're too close to.]
Well, I do wish you luck with your dilemma, and I'm sorry I don't have any helpful advice for you!
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What's your name? Oryou is Oryou.
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[He presses a hand to his chest and ducks into a bow briefly before sitting back up.]
I do wish you luck with your companions, Miss Oryou.
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[She's not always the best at names, but she'll do her best.]
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[He says with a laugh and a little wave, like it isn't a big deal.]
But I am pleased that listening has helped at least in some small part!
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[Honestly, kind of rude to other people!]
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[Sometimes those names even stick!]
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[Oryou you can't just ask people if they're old-]
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I would answer that if I could, but I'm afraid I don't know. I've yet to run into anyone who recognizes me, so I can't even fathom a guess, at this point. My species can be rather long-lived, anyway.
[So possibly?? ~it is a mystery~]
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[He shrugs after that's out there, though, smiling once again.]
But that hardly matters here and now, does it?
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[Is not having a backstory a tragic backstory?? Food for thought.]
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[He says, but this is 110% not the truth. Don't worry about it.]
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[He must be an interesting guy to be married to Oryou!]
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